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Diwali in Delhi
The downside of Diwali in Delhi, I’m sorry to say, outweighs the upside. But that’s just my opinion!
The decorations are beautiful: live marigold garlands hung from the stairways of our hotel, detailed flower designs with votive candles burning in them at the top of the stairs, a much appreciated invite to a party on the rooftop dining room from Brij, the owner were all lovely.
But unfortunately the fire crackers go off from dawn to midnight in a never ending series. It makes you jump & feels quite unsafe to be walking nearby, especially when some of the fire cracker lighters are very young boys (supervised by their Dad, but still…).
Our hotel Diwali party began early in the evening with offers of appetizers, and alcoholic drinks (a surprise since the owner is a devote and traditional Hindu and does not offer liquor on the menu). The family and staff were very gracious, and the other guests friendly.
So far so good…but surprise, surprise, there was Brij setting off extremely loud fire crackers in a very small space at the end of the balcony facing the street. They hurt my ears, & when an Israeli woman pointed out the piles of boxes still remaining to be shot off, I knew I had to leave to preserve my hearing (I already have tinitus), & my nerves!
Today, Sunday, it feels much quieter. We walked out early & there weren’t many people on the streets. The revelers are resting!






